Monday, January 21, 2013

I’m staying home next weekend


You know how things happen in 3s? Well the way things are going next weekend is going to be nr 3 and I would much rather avoid it.

Nr. 1 > Flat tire

Last Saturday afternoon (as in not this past weekend but the weekend before that) after picking Tiger up from a birthday party I got a flat tire on the way home along a backwards farm road.  No problem I though, I know how to change a tire.

Only the rental car that I’m driving at the moment had no spare tire only one of these run-flat kits.

After a while I figured out how to work it and despite messing quite a bit of the liquid I managed to inflate the tire to the recommended level.

A farmer who lived nearby came to see if I needed help and also offered that I use is phone when I discovered that I had left mine at home.

Luckily Tiger & I managed to get going before it was pitch black and snowing. Unfortunately, we were home too late to get Cat to swimming.

I don’t know what your husbands are like but mine was really annoyed with me. He claims that it is because I drive like a typical woman that this happened. Cause he’s never had a flat tire. (Yeah I can distinctly remember him getting one about 2 years ago).  On the other hand, this was my third flat tire in 2 years.

Nr. 2 > Towed

On Saturday I drove through to Mechelen (about 50km / 31 miles) away to help my friend Noreen pick new frames for her glasses.  I find it hard to decide what looks good on me when I change my frames, so when she asked me if I would come help her I was only too happy to oblige.

So, after the trip to the optometrist we went and had some coffee etc. I couldn’t stay too long since I had to be back home to get Cat off to swimming on time. So at just after 4 we said our goodbyes.

Okay, now let me first back track. I don’t know Mechelen at all. But Himself had suggested that I just find parking on the street i/o using the underground parking which would cost an arm & a leg.

Right, so when I got there I was thrilled to find parking not too far from the city centre. FFW to when I wanted to leave … the car is not there. Another car is parked where I was parked.

WTF!!!! Now I’m panicking, did someone steal it? Surely no-one would have stolen it! (I did have an antique Singer sewing machine in the back) but still….

I call Noreen. She comes up to meet me. I go into to store across from where I was parked and ask if they saw anything. Yes, as a matter of fact they did. The police towed me away.

So we go outside and low and behold there is one of those temporary no parking sign boards two parking spots away.  Not very clear!!!!

Luckily Noreen knows Mechelen quite well so she was able to take me to the police who told us where we could find the car.

Now, in the mean time the man has been calling me to hear where I am.  Before I knew the car had been towed I told him I was just getting to the car (which I thought was true but then the car was not where I left it).  And since he totally over-reacted about the flat tire I just stuck to my story that traffic was bad (there was an accident on the way back) I just neglected to tell him about being towed away. 

Also, the man’s blood pressure is way too high, so I need to do what I can to keep it down. One day I’ll be able to tell him and he’ll see the funny side of things.

In the mean time, I’m keeping my fingers crossed that he doesn’t act totally out of character and get the mail out of the mailbox … and find the bill for the towing service! Cause then the cat will be out the bag in a major way, plus I might be dead.

Nr. 3  > I really hope nothing happens!  

However, my plan to stay at home all weekend is not going to work. Noreen just reminded me that we have tickets to go watch a Pantomime in Antwerp on Sunday.  I’m so going to park under ground!

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Tuesday 10 - If I could do or be anything

I am going to pretend that I have been blogging religiously ... and that I have not been slacking. (I do have a good excuse though, it's been crazy central here at work).

But I miss it and today is Tuesday which means:




This week Lena and Brin, who blogs over at Bold Butter Baby came up with the following topic:


10 Professions You Wish You Had

Okay this should be easy aren’t we all always dreaming about life would be like better if we did something else for a living:

  1. A teacher. When I was little I always wanted to be one. Only these days I’m not so sure if it really is as rewarding as I imagine it to be. But still it deserves to be on my list.
  2. A florist. How nice must it not be to be surrounded all day long by beautiful flowers?
  3. A writer. I love reading and I would love to be able to write.
  4. A bookstore owner. Ever since I saw You’ve got mail I have thought that it must be wonderful to own a little shop like ‘The Shop Around the Corner’
  5. A cupcake/cocktail bar. I love baking and I love cocktails so why not combine the two things I love.  Only, I would want to be able to afford hiring some staff since I would not like to spend day and night working.
  6. Actress. O got the acting bug in high school and even if I never did anything bigger than a regional drama competition when I was 17 I still think it is something I would have loved.
  7. A rock star. I would love to be Pink!
  8. A Painter. I have the desire to be creative, sadly I lack the skills.
  9. A Graphic designer. Again a job that lets you express your creativity.
  10. An interior designer. Sadly, again in reality I like the skill to do this.
  11. Bonus à A water slide tester. Honestly this sounds like such a blast. Just think of all the travel not to mention what a great tan you’ll have

How about you? If you could do anything what would you like to do? Link up and tell us about it!

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Motivation?


If you read my post of yesterday you will know that I only have 2 new years’ resolutions this year:

  1. for us is to make it to 2014
  2. to lose some weight

There is not much I can really do to ensure that my family ‘survive’ 2013 but I sure can do something about losing some weight.

I don’t know about you, but the older I get the worse my self-control has become. 10 Years ago losing a couple of kilos was nothing. These days I can find so many excuses for having just another cookie/chocolate, slice of bread, mac & cheese; anything basically.

As for exercising, finding a valid excuse why I can’t is just as easy.

But, if there is one thing that has not changed it is fact that I hate spending money on myself.

Now, I’m sure you are wondering how this ties in with losing weight. Here’s why:

My friend Noreen & I both want to lose weight. Not much, about 5kg. (11lbs). Honestly, I want to lose a bit more but if I can lose this I’ll be happy.  

So we have decided that we will see who can lose the weight the fastest. The loser will then have to buy the other one their concert ticket. We are going to go see Bon Jovi in June.

Since money is already tight in my house having to buy 2 tickets i/o 1 ticket (or no ticket – if I win) might just be the best motivation to lose this weight yet.

Let the weight loss begin!

ps. relax!  I’m not planning on starving myself or anything stupid I’m just going to stop eating junk, walk a bit faster when I walk the dogs at night, etc

Monday, January 7, 2013

New beginnings







New beginnings…… it really is what I want for this year. 2012 has been a tough year for my family, right up until the end.  I can honestly say that I’m very glad that we managed to survive it.

We had a bit of a scare just after Christmas when Himself had a severe allergic reaction (we are not 100% sure to what). At 2 in the morning he raced himself to the hospital, just making it there before passing out.  Meanwhile I was home stressing if he even made it to the hospital. I know, I know,  but when your husband is unable to breathe you can’t really take the time to argue with him about who should drive.  I can tell you I was very happy to get his ‘text’ saying that he made it. (it was something like this: 'ay hos')

Don’t worry, that is the worse of it.

Which is why I know it is not normal to be so pessimistic at the start of a new year and I probably shouldn’t be. I mean, there are many things to be thankful for, (Himself survived and is back up and over the worst of it) and I’m sure that there are thousands of people worse off.  I guess it’s just that 2012 very nearly kicked our butts.

So this year I have only two New Year’s resolutions:

  1. for us is to make it to 2014
  2. to lose some weight

How about you? How do you feel about what lies ahead in 2013?
Did you make any New Years resolutions?