If I had to guess I would say that I hear a version of this about 10 times a day - and that is on the days that I 'm at work is:
Why are you so mean?
You are so mean!
I hate it when you are so mean!
Why must you always be so mean, why can't you be more fun?
Whenever I say or suggest something that does not go down well with the kids this is what I'm told.
Really makes me feel like a great mom!