Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Self image

What on earth are you meant to say when your healthy 9 year old daughter comes home complaining about the fact that she is fat!

Apparently a boy in her class asked her why she was so fat.

I was really tempted to tell her to tell him that she can always lose weight and be thin but he'll always be ugly!

Honestly, she's not a stick insect but this child is FAR from obese! What doesn't help is the fact that her brother on the other hand is a stick insect.

No amount of telling her that she is perfect they way she is is working.

I'm so not excited about the teen years!

I think they are perfect just the way they are ... especially when they are being this nice to each other.

6 comments:

  1. Oh, how sad! When my kids tell me about others teasing them, I always reply that the other kid probably has a crush on them. "Gross!" they always yell, but with a smile on their face.

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  2. By the way, I love your list of 100! We have a lot of things in common, but are complete opposites in some ways! I'm totally not a tom boy but I share a lot of your eccentricities!

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  3. Goodness, kids are tough on each other aren't they? I would have been like you and wanted to tell her to insult him back. Sadly, we have to br grownups about things sometimes. ;o)

    All you can do is keep reassuring her she is wonderful. I agree with the lady above me - I think this boy might have a crush on her. Funny how they show their love, huh?

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  4. I want to punch that kid in the face. Is that wrong?

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  5. ^^^ totally agree with the above comment! What a mean boy!! She is NOT fat, not even chubby! Kids like that make me so angry! They also make me happy that I don't have a girl because I'd be so heartbroken if my daughter came home thinking she was fat because of some kid!

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  6. I just read another blog about this, where another girl called her kindergartner fat. What is wrong with children today? So sad.

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