Long live the King!

Today is (the last) Koninginnedag (Queens day) in Holland. Queen Beatrix’s official celebration day. Though Queen Beatrix was born on 31 January, the holiday is observed on 30 April as it was the birthday of her mother and predecessor, Juliana. Since most of the traditional activities are held outside, observing the holiday in April makes suitable weather more likely.

As of next year it will be known as Koningsdag  (Kings day)and will be celebrated on the 27^th of April, unless the 27^th is a Sunday.

Why, because today Willem-Alexander was sworn in as the King of Holland. His mother, Queen Beatrix is abdicating after 33 years on the throne.  

In Holland, unlike in England there is no official crowning. The crown, sceptre and orb is only for show and are displayed on a table in the Nieuwe Kerk in Amsterdam, where the inaugurations take place. It also does not contain any real gem stones.

 

Thousands of people waiting outside the royal palace to greet the new king

 As they appeared on the balcony after the official inauguration of King Willem-Alexander, Princess Beatrix announced: ‘A couple of moments ago I took leave of the throne. I’m happy and thankful to introduce you to your new King: Willem-Alexander.’

King Willem-Alexander & Queen Maxima

 all images via google

November in April

Boom! Last Monday of April! Can you believe it? Sadly the weather here in Beglium is acting like it is November.

My dad got back on Friday - 6 weeks in South Africa and he did not come empty handed. We got loads of stuff sent over from the family. It was like a mini christmas at hour house.



We went and saw Iron Man 3 with the kids on Sunday ... really enjoyed it. Ben Kingsley is so funny!


This week is going to be a good one. Why, you ask, well Wednesday is 'May day' aka 'Workers day' which means No Work Baby! yeah! 

Right and just because I want to keep the weekend going for as long as possible I'm leaving you with this YouTube clip .... LOVING this song at the moment!

Boys!!!! O dear ....

This morning in the car on the way to school the conversation somehow turned to hot guys.

Me: I'm already married to a hot guy, your dad is the hottest guy, so I'm lucky.
Cat: What? Daddy's not even in my top 5, heck he's not even in my top 100
Himself: You cut me deep Cat, that really hurts! Not even in your top 100?
Cat: Okay, maybe in my top 100, but like number 100. I'm growing up

Well she sure knows how to cut her dad down to size. Not too long ago he was number 2 (after Tom Selleck), now he is number 100!

So we asked her who was in her top 5:

1. Josh Duhamel (he is like sooo cute!) & Dwayne Johnson (they have to share 1st place cause there is no way that she can choose between them!)
2. Chris Evans (Captain America)
3. Chris Hemsworth (Thor)
4. Robert Downey Jr. (Iron Man)
5. Tom Selleck
6. Adam Levine
7. Robin Thicke

via Google

 
So as you can see her top 5 is more like the top 8 but that is because there are just so many cute guys and how can she choose!

Earlier in the week Himself had taken the kids to McDonalds for dinner (I was in town having dinner with Noreen)
 
So while Tiger was off play Cat asked her dad if she could please say yes to this boy in her class who asked her to be his girlfriend.
Mommy knows who his dad is so it should be okay, was her reasoning and her two best friends also have boyfriends.

Well since she asked so nicely how could he resist. So she now has a boyfriend, but no funny business is allowed.

While we were waiting to the dr. on Wednesday I asked her what it was about this boy that she liked so much.

'He is nice and kind and he asked me if it hurt when I fell from heaven'

Nuff said! :)

This little piggy went to market, this little piggy went where?

So … yesterday I took the day off to take Cat back to the hospital to have her cast removed. That went well.Two more weeks without any running or swimming which is proving quite hard cause by yesterday evening I had to remind her ‘no running up the stairs’.

But something interesting did happen while we were waiting to see the doctor.  There was a lady there with two little girls. The eldest was, if I had to guess, about 4 and then a little one of around 2.  I can’t be sure if she is from Morocco or Turkey but she cleary is a Muslim.

She was waiting to see a doctor but didn’t have an appointment. So finally she approached one of the nurses.  Only here Dutch was really bad, so she was switching between some Dutch, some English and some French. The nurse had no idea what she was on about.

I figured it out.  So I explained to the nurse what the lady was asking/saying.

Turns out that while they were in the bath the little girl was jumping up and down and somehow fell onto her mom’s foot. As in, the moms toe went up the little girls’ vajay-jay.

Now this is where the big drama comes in. The mother is very worried that this may have broken the little girls’ hymen, which would be a massive problem for her when she gets older.

The nurse just said, no there is no issue, and told her to go see her house doctor and walked off.

So the lady came and sat down next to me. She told me that she had taken the little girl to their house doctor, twice and he confirmed that everything was still in tact. But she wanted to see a paediatric gynaecologist because this was very serious.

I explained to the lady that it was highly unlikely and that her daughter would have bled if anything had happened but she was not sure. She also told me that she did not believe her doctor cause she was sure that he did not know anything about vajay-jays. I then explained to her that all doctors know about vajay-jays because they all had to torn about all the parts of the body to become a doctor.

Then Cat wanted to know what this was all about so I had to explain about it to her and explain to her why this was such a big issue for the lady. And how, one day when the girl was big it might seem that she was not a virgin and how that is a problem if you are a Muslim.

O she said. And that was that.

By the time we left the mom was still sitting there waiting so I’m not sure if she got to see a paediatric gynaecologist.

I must admit that I’m very glad that I don’t have to live with that constant worry.  I’m glad that I don’t live in a society where the state of your hymen is THAT important.  And I’m glad my daughter doesn’t have to worry about it.

Would you rather ....

Wow what a week this has been! Can hardly believe it is Thursday. 

Mmmh it's been so long since I've taken part in a WWTK and on top of that I'm doing it on a Thursday .... sorry bout that.
I've just been super busy. I know, I know, we all are and it's not much of an excuse.....

Well either you can accept it and move on or sod off ... please don't sod off 

Okay so if you want to take part check out Scriptor and Kenzi and answer the questions.

--QUESTIONS--
Answer these as best you can; feel free to explain why
1.)    Would you rather… go out to eat or make a nice meal at home?
2.)    Would you rather… drive or fly?
3.)    Would you rather… go to a sporting event or watch it on TV?
4.)    Would you rather… read a book or watch TV?
5.)    Would you rather… go to bed early or sleep in late?




Lets see...

Question 1: Would you rather… go out to eat or make a nice meal at home?

Without a doubt go out to eat! No clean up, no trying to find something that everyone would like. Did I mention no clean up?

Question 2: Would you rather… drive or fly?

Now this is a tough one to answer. I love road trips and both our kids are great travellers so even 12 hour plus trips are no hassle. Plus Himself and I always seem to connect really well when we are in the car. There a no other distractions so we can really chat.  But flying would mean a big trip somewhere new and exciting or maybe back to South Africa (for a vacation) so in all honesty, both.

Question 3: Would you rather… go to a sporting event or watch it on TV?

Go to a sporting event. There is just a whole different feel to it. You are surrounded by other fans, you sing and cheer. I love it. (I'm talking about watching rugby) Things like golf or tennis .... well if you tied me to a chair I would watch it on TV.

Question 4:  Would you rather… read a book or watch TV?

I've been known to do both at the same time. You know if you are soft of watching tv but it's not something that you need to see every frame of. I love doing both so really it depends on my mood or how good a book I'm reading.

Question 5:  Would you rather… go to bed early or sleep in late?

If I don't HAVE to get up early the next morning it would be to sleep in. I'm a bit of a night owl .... so I tend to stay up later at night anyway. Plus the kids are now at an age where they are happy to have a lie in in the mornings so on weekends when when we have no-where to be they might get up at around 10. 

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On a more personal note ..... Kim took Cat to the hospital on Tuesday. Yeah, how great a friend is she not to give up her day off to take my kid to hospital. 

So anyway, they took more x-rays and said that it is not her liggaments after all, but a hairline fracture. So the cast is back on, or I should rather say, they put a new cast on her leg. Wednesday next week I have to take her back and they'll do another evaluation to see if the cast can come off or if it should go on for the full 6 weeks.

O and spring is finally in the air here. So happy about it.

Another senseless act of cowardice

Like every single one of you I was absolutely horrified to hear the news and see the photos of what happened in Boston.  It is absolutely shocking and hard to understand how people can do this to other people.

My thoughts are with everyone affected by this.

Image from here

Ce la vie

So in my post on Monday I wrote about Cat being at my friend Noreen’s house for a sleep-over and how she was going to go on scouts camp on Wednesday.  Well, things did not go as planned.

I got a call on Monday to say that Noreen was taking Cat to hospital. Evidently she had hurt her ankle on the trampoline.  At first I thought it might be a bit over-kill to take her to hospital, I mean, my child is a bit of a drama queen. But it turns out that it was a good thing. She seems to have torn all the ligaments in her left foot … To make sure that she keeps off her foot the dr. put on a cast. … Hence, no camp and no 5K run which she has been training so hard for.

‘Mais oui’ such is life…

Not much else to tell you about. O I have about 7 days leave (carried over from last year) which I need to use or else I’ll lose them. So this morning I was saying to Himself how I really could do with some sun. Know what he suggested? He suggested that I go somewhere nice for a couple of days (6 – 7), like New York, I deserve it.

So I want to know:

Would you go away on your own for a couple of days?

Where would you go?